Uncategorized February 16, This has been broken down over the centuries to what it is today: hooking up, dating with no intention of a relationship, living together without really considering if marriage is even on the table or not getting married at all. But there are many out there who want to get married but are tired of the dating scene and the one night stands and want a genuine honest to God relationship like a marriage. Know what you want out of a relationship. This is a very important step, but know that it is not the be all end all.